March 24, 2008

Firefighter Husband vs. Wife

Ok, I have to share this story with you. My husband who "gets paid to hike" took me on a hike on Saturday. I have never hiked this trail (although it's always been a goal) and was ready to accomplish this goal. It was only 2.8 miles........not bad, right?? WRONG!!! My husband carried our backpack full of water, snacks, and cell phone, which I thought was heavy. His response was "I wish I carried this light of a pack, my fire gear is about 30 pounds heavier. YIKES, I thought. I guess I'd never make it in the FF world. As we headed up this mountain, other hikers (young/old, in shape/out of shape) passed us up. My wonderful husband kept stopping, turning back and checking on me. I was tugging along at what felt like a fast pace, but really must of been snail speed. I said "I'm ok, maybe slow, but I'm not quitting!" He'd turn and continue with his hike. Only to stop again, turn around and check-on me. I made the comment of wow this is great excercise for you. Oh this is nothing he said, in fact I've ran this trail a few times. I'm use to hiking trails steeper than this. WHAT, I thought! I was breathing hard and sweating a lot. It crossed my mind a few times, that I could never be a FF. AND as not to add more "flame to the fire" I was hiking away from my car, he hikes away from fire. He kept telling me "you're almost there.....keep going." I'd stop and look up only to see what looked like a long way up. A hiker passed me on his way down and said "20 more minutes and you'll be there." I felt like shouting "20 minutes......that's not almost there." My husband turned around to wait for me when we hit the 2.5 mile marker, and asked me "do you want to turn around?" Drowing in sweat, I stop to catch my breath and replied "NO WAY, I may be slow, but I will finish this hike!" Now let me throw this in......I'm not totally out of shape (I kick-box and spin as well as workout at the gym) although this hike was proving me wrong. Finally what seemed like another hour, my husband turns around and says, "see that rock.....that's the top!" The last 15 steps felt like my leggs were cement. At last, I reached the top!! What a view!! Finally, a goal I set, I reached. I apologized to my husband about making him go slow. He smiled and said "that's ok, I was happy to have you with me. I didn't want you to go down with heat stroke." What a keeper, that man is!! I have a totally wonderful husband!! How cool is that?? So we rested a few minutes, he gave me a cold gatorade (as a reward) and I munched on a fiber bar. We headed down hill, which one would think would be easier. NOT!! I felt like I worked my poor little fragile body more than I did on the way up. My fingers were so swollen and my feet were aching. Hubby kept saying, look we're almost to the truck. Maybe it's my eyes, but it looked far away, still. Anyways, I'm happy to announce that a round-trip of 6.2 miles kept me busy for 4.5 hours. When I got home I crashed on the sofa for a nice nap. Today as I walk around the house with aching calf muscles, I can't help but think "I'm thankful to be a wife and greatful for my hard-working FF husband." This hike made me appreciate him more than I already did. He's in awesome shape, and well me that's a different story. Hope you post a comment about a story of hiking or a challenge you've had. Stay safe!!

3 comments:

Ginny said...

Trish,

I can't tell you how many times my super-in-shape-stud-hubby has told me that "it won't be that hard." LOL....but, I do it and I refuse to quit and secretly feel very proud of myself the next day. I think I know where you hiked and I agree that the down is way worse. Good job!

Cacophany_cat said...

I'm not a firefighters wife...yet, out wedding isn't until later this year. But I found this blog through the Cal Fire Blog and I just love reading the posts!

I went for a hike with my h2b in September, a 10 mile round trip in Yosemite, I'm english, I'm in good shape, but hell I havn't got used to the heat over there yet!

I struggled the whole way back up the mountain side and only woke to mumble a few words to my partner before he headed to work 6am the next day! I dunno how he does it, I was aching so badly!

corey said...

I came upon your blog recently and have really enjoyed reading your posts. I am a wildland firefighter's wife up in Montana. Over the 2.5 years my husband and I dated we spent our summers apart, working summer jobs (we just got married this last Sept. and were in college at the time). So this is my first season as his wife. Its been tough so far as my job is seasonal as well and doesn't start up for awhile yet, and he is already getting off forest on assignments. 2+ weeks is a long time. Oh, and did I mention I live in MT, but am from Michigan? Living in a new place, no job, no husband around creates a very frustrating situation. Its nice to know I'm not alone in this. Thanks for your honesty